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Finding the Joy
Finding the Joy is a weekly column by Uriel ben Avraham that anchors the ancient rhythm of the Torah to the messy, modern world. Each week, we'll search for an actual moment of simcha—joy.


The Smallest Offering
Leviticus calls the grain offering a "soul." Rashi says it's what a poor person brings. God counts it as everything.
Uriel ben Avraham
5 days ago4 min read


Show Up With What You Have
After the Golden Calf, the first repair isn't a speech — it's a gathering. What a shul losing half its staff and Team Israel in Miami have in common.
Uriel ben Avraham
Mar 134 min read


Carve New Ones
The tablets broke. God said: carve new ones. This Shushan Purim, Jerusalem read the Megillah under Iranian missiles — and danced.
Uriel ben Avraham
Mar 64 min read


Crushed and Lit
The Torah's first instruction for the eternal light: the olives had to be crushed. This week, anemones bloom again in fields along the Gaza border.
Uriel ben Avraham
Feb 274 min read


What You've Got
God handed Moses a procurement list for the Tabernacle — down to the dye colors. Then: everyone whose heart is so moved.
Uriel ben Avraham
Feb 204 min read


Last Place
There is a man in Cortina d'Ampezzo, Italy, right now — a Jewish attorney from South Florida named Jared Firestone — hurtling face-first down an ice track on a sled the size of a cafeteria tray. He is representing Israel in skeleton at the Winter Olympics. He finished twenty-second out of twenty-four competitors. He is thrilled. Last week, at the opening ceremony in Milan, Firestone carried the Israeli flag while wearing a kippah embroidered with the names of the eleven Israe
Uriel ben Avraham
Feb 134 min read


The One Who Heard
The parsha with the Ten Commandments is named for a Midianite priest. A lot of people heard what God did. Yitro moved.
Uriel ben Avraham
Feb 64 min read


They Packed Drums
The women packed drums before they left Egypt. Before the sea split. Before there was any reason to sing. Rashi wants to know where the timbrels came from.
Uriel ben Avraham
Jan 304 min read


What the Table Remembers
There is a falafel stand at Mahane Yehuda market in Jerusalem that changed a man's life. Not because the falafel was extraordinary — though if you've been to Mahane Yehuda, you know it might have been. But because of what he saw when the fried chickpea balls came out of the oil. Round. Golden-brown. Warm. David "Dugo" Leitner was fourteen years old in January 1945 when the Nazis marched him out of Auschwitz. Starving, freezing, wearing camp clothes in the Polish snow, he drea
Uriel ben Avraham
Jan 234 min read


The Narrow Place
God made four promises of redemption. Nobody was ready to hear them. He started anyway.
Uriel ben Avraham
Jan 164 min read


A Stranger in a Foreign Land
Israelis chose "homeward" as their word of the year. Moses named his son "stranger in a foreign land." The parsha that starts Exodus moves in one direction.
Uriel ben Avraham
Jan 94 min read


And He Lived
The parsha about Jacob's death is named "And He Lived." Somewhere along the Gaza fence, a rubber duck is squeaking. Both things are true at once.
Uriel ben Avraham
Jan 25 min read


Come Forward
Joseph told his brothers: come forward to me. The whole parsha runs on that verb. This week in Israel, we came.
Uriel ben Avraham
Dec 26, 20255 min read


The One They Didn't Recognize
Joseph's brothers saw an Egyptian official. The Greeks saw a provincial temple. Sometimes the miracle is right in front of you, hidden in plain sight.
Uriel ben Avraham
Dec 19, 20254 min read


The Kitchen in Someone Else's Apartment
The parsha called "And He Settled" is the one where everything falls apart. The dwelling was never in the walls.
Uriel ben Avraham
Dec 12, 20254 min read


The Name You Carry Home
Jacob wrestled all night and walked into dawn with a new name and a limp. Both were permanent. Names don't describe who you are — they describe who you're becoming.
Uriel ben Avraham
Dec 5, 20254 min read


The People Named for Thank You
Leah named her son Yehuda — "I will give thanks." That name became Jew. We are the people named for thank you.
Uriel ben Avraham
Nov 28, 20254 min read


The Wells You Dig Twice
Isaac dug his father's wells, gave them the same names, and kept digging when people filled them in. The quietest patriarch has the most to teach.
Uriel ben Avraham
Nov 21, 20254 min read


I Will Go
A parsha called "The Life of Sarah" opens with her death. Everything that follows — the land, the bride, the comfort — is the life.
Uriel ben Avraham
Nov 14, 20255 min read


She Laughed
Sarah laughed twice in Genesis. Once in disbelief, once holding her son. She named him for the distance between the two.
Uriel ben Avraham
Nov 7, 20254 min read
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